Choices in Life
Posted on April 20 2015
Ok so this blog may seem non nail related but it has huge meaning to me especially at the moment.
Life is full of choices, which is so incredibly exciting when you think about it.
I have always been a huge believer in the power of your mind and the law of attraction but sometimes it really is hard to stay focused on being happy and know that you are going in the direction of your dreams. We all face hurdles and we all have our ups and downs, some more than others. But a lot of the time it’s how you react to these hurdles that has the biggest influence in your life.
I was always such a worry wart about what people thought of me and making sure I always pleased everyone but that is so draining and is unhealthy in my mind. The number one person you should worry about making happy first is YOU (although my husband would disagree on that lol). Since becoming a Mum and starting my business it’s completely changed me in a good way. I feel more confident, happy, successful, proud and actually more grounded. I am here because I followed my dream and my passion and its leading me down such an amazing path, setting my family up for what I know will be an amazing future.
Of late I have been trying to figure out the next step for Miss Bliss. I really want to go as far as I possibly can. Deciding what direction though, did my head in because there are so many choices. I finally decided where I wanted to take things but to start that process I’ve had to make other choices that didn’t make me so happy because I hate to let others down but it’s all part of the process sometimes. A step back is a step forward in this case.
I now have my business plan, my dream, my path locked in place. I’m going after it 110% and baby it FEELS GREAT.
This week I was reading some articles and stumbled upon this article by James Van Praagh. I read it and knew that what I've decided is right and it was such confirmation for me which has helped get rid of any uncertainly I had hanging around. So look out, this girl is refocused and about to be recharged after my holiday. Have a read, I hope it’s as useful to you as it was for me.
6 Tips for Making Decisions
What is important and valuable to you? What you value may not be of much importance to someone else. Know what you value most, and hold it close to you.
Don’t lose focus of your future. Many people tend to make choices based on life as it appears right now instead of looking to the future. Does your choice and its ramifications stay within the goals that you have set for yourself for the future.
Have you looked at all the alternatives and considered different scenarios? Sometimes you just might consider a different outcome.
Give yourself time to sit and contemplate. Bring yourself into a meditative state, into the stillness of the silence. It is in that silence, where one communicates with their soul’s needs and understandings. Just putting forth the question to your higher self while in meditation can offer a clear indication of what is right for you.
How important is this decision and are you willing to work on it? Don’t get caught up with how important a choice is but, better yet, what a positive impact this has on my your life.
Don’t forget to use your intuition. Allow that gut feeling deep within to guide you.
Always remember that life is a series of choices, and mostly all choices are based on two things: love or fear. Both can masquerade in different ways along your path, but love what you do and do what you love. Make the choices in your life that will make your soul sing and sustain a happy life during your earthly mission. Just think: the choice you make today could make not only your life happier, but also make a better world in which we all live
Thanks for reading